Wow! – 57 Unique Benefits of Homeschooling



Parents, is homeschooling the right choice for you and your children? Maybe you think you don’t have the time to homeschool because you work. Perhaps you don’t have confidence in your ability to teach your kids because you never took “teaching” courses.

But consider the alternative. Public schools can destroy your children’s self-esteem, destroy their ability to read, strangle their love of learning, put them in physical and moral danger, and wreck their future.

In contrast, here’s 57 unique benefits homeschooling can give you and your kids. This list was created by Laura B., a smart, wonderful wife, mother of three, homeschooler, and business owner who works from home and still focuses on her family, and includes a few benefits that I added.

Homeschooling (or low-cost internet private schools), can have the following extraordinary benefits for you and your children:

1. Be with your family

2. Set your own schedule that’s convenient for you and your kids

3. Vacation when you want

4. Choose curriculum that best suits the needs of your child

5. Be totally aware of the state and progress of your child’s education

6. Keep your child away from unnecessary peer pressure

7. Keep your child away from the bad influence of other children

8. Love, nurture, and teach your child the character and morals you value most

9. Make learning fun

10. Make learning as “experiential” as you want

11. Don’t have to get up at the crack of dawn to get your child dressed and fed and off to school where they’re so tired they don’t learn well anyway.

12. Break up the day however you want to fit your child’s learning attention span

13. Teach your child without any “assumed limitations.” Teach multiple languages, develop one skill or subject — the sky’s the limit

14. What you teach an older child naturally filters down to the younger child(ren) making learning much easier and faster for siblings

15. Teach at the pace and developmental stage appropriate for your child

16. Avoid educational “labeling”

17. Keep your child as far away from drugs as possible

18. Never have to worry about bomb scares or mass shootings

19. Allow your child to do, think, discuss, and explore in ways not possible in a rigid classroom setting

20. Constant positive reinforcement and gentle correction. No abusive words or actions that scar your child’s psyche

21. Don’t use the school system as a babysitter. Most parents only need three to five hours a day for homeschooling their kids — the rest of the day is often filled with unnecessary “busy work”

22. Develop your child’s life skills such as cooking, cleaning, and organizing that are easily learned with the additional time spent at home

23. Spend as much time outdoors as you want to enjoy nature and the world around us

24. Teach the value of responsibility by providing daily jobs for your kids

25. To make money management as natural as breathing by allowing even small children to do tasks, earn money, save it, and spend it in an appropriate manner.

26. Never have your child beat up by a bully. Teach self-defense skills that will enable him to deal with any situation, but not until he is mature enough to handle the emotional aspects of confrontation

27. No pressure or set “expectations” from teachers on a younger sibling that follows an older sibling in the same school

28. Be around when your child needs to talk

29. Take a break when your child needs a break

30. Bond as a family through family group activities

31. Pass on your religious beliefs and morals to your children and stay away from the “indoctrination” of other school systems

32. Teach sex education when and how you want

33. Develop your child’s imagination and teach diverse problem-solving skills, instead of one institutionalized method of thinking

34. Unlimited possibilities for extra curricular activities that interest your child.

35. Not having to live up to the expectations or skills of others

36. Develop the individualism and unique potential of your child

37. Avoid traditional school “group activities” that may leave one student doing all the work or ruining it for everyone else

38. Never have your child feel the failure, embarrassment, or teasing from “failing” a grade

39. To keep your children out of the care, custody, and control of people you don’t know who naturally teach their (sometimes warped) values to your children, whether they realize it or not

40. No opportunity for your child to “just get by” with academics

41. To have your child learn initiative naturally, because there’s no peer pressure or fear of embarrassing himself

42. Allow your child to have input and say in subject matter and learning style, so learning will be exciting and an adventure, rather than the boring drudge it is in most public schools

43. Allow your child to focus on growth and development — not following the latest fad or being in a certain group

44. So your child will only be surrounded by people who love him, encourage him, and want the best for him.

45. To make sure your child doesn’t end up graduating without knowing how to read or knowing other basic skills, due to educational failings of your local schools.

46. Keep your child out of private schools that have peer pressure, teacher criticism, drugs, sex, and alcohol that your child never needs to be around

47. Avoid grading scales and testing that gives no positive benefit to your child

48. Not to give local, state, or the federal government control of your child’s mind and future, that they arrogantly assume is theirs

49. To easily pass on your unique heritage or language to your child

50. So your child is not limited by “age” or “grade” to advance in or explore subjects in which they are interested or gifted

51. To teach your children to enjoy life and learning

52. To allow your children to go to work with Mom or Dad when you all want to — not just on the one “go to work with a parent holiday”

53. Go to as many field trips as you want, to places that interest your child

54. To just take a day off when everyone feels like it

55. Flexibility to switch to or experiment with different curriculum and teaching methods to perfectly suit your child’s interests and abilities.

56. Teach your kids to read quickly with phonics. Not having your child waste 12 years with idiotic “whole-language” reading methods that public schools use, which can wreck your child’s ability to read.

57. Re-ignite your own love of learning, by teaching your kids.

Parents, if you are disgusted with public schools and want your children to have the great education they deserve, why not consider homeschooling? Millions of parents now homeschool their kids, and many of these parents are only high-school graduates.

In the last three chapters of “Public Schools, Public Menace,” you’ll find many ways to homeschool your kids or use internet private schools, even if you work. Homeschooling can be a lot easier, and take a lot less time than you think. It can also bring you great joy in teaching your children.

By: Joel Turtel

About the Author:
Joel Turtel is an education policy analyst and syndicated columnist. He is also the author of “Public Schools, Public Menace: How Public Schools Lie To Parents and Betray Our Children” and “The Welfare State: No Mercy For the Middle Class.” Contact Information: Website: http://www.mykidsdeservebetter.com Email: jturtel@yahoo.com Article Copyrighted © 2007 by Joel Turtel. NOTE: You may post this Article on another website only if you set up a hyperlink to Joel Turtel’s email address and website URL, http://www.mykidsdeservebetter.com



Some Benefits To Homeschooling



Homeschoolers by definition have chosen the alternative method to educate their children over public schools.

Homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, but you will need to know your local state’s regulations and mandates.

Depending upon how structured you want the child’s educational experience to be, will determine if you decide to work from a packaged homeschool curriculum product or perhaps a bit more unstructured with a more flexible individualized homeschooling methodology. Certainly, a lot can be said for latter. This approach allows you teach subjects driven by the child’s interest. Again, the amount of unit study structure you use is entirely up to you.

Another benefit of homeschooling is to not only provide for the learning of the basic subjects, but you can incorporate essential life skills into your homeschool daily lesson plans as well. Most parents choose a combination of structure and flexibility. The methods of homeschooling vary from family to family and from child to child within each family. Many parents don’t actually settle into their style of teaching right away. But, rather, their teaching style and the homeschool lesson plans and schedules evolve over time until they are comfortable within the parent’s confidence level.

Once you have settled into your own style of homeschool teaching you will really be able to relax and enjoy all the advantages of being a homeschooler brings. As a homeschooling parent the child’s entire world is your lesson plan. You can stay in for the day and concentrate on the traditional subject matter or you can take a field trip to one of your local businesses. Or, visit some of the historic locations around your community combined with a trip to the library to learn more about that historical site. The benefits of homeschooling is only as limited as your own creativity. As the child’s parent no one else is more in tune with what educational interests your child possesses and only as a homeschool parent can you determine the amount of time needed to be spent on any particular subject in order for your child to achieve the understanding that they deserve.

Homeschooling… a lot of responsibility… to be sure. But, the rewards are endless.

By: Mary Joyce

About the Author:
Mary Joyce is a former educator, successful homeschool parent, and has written many articles on teaching your child at home for the Homeschool-Curriculum-4u website. Please visit (http://www.homeschool-curriculum-4u.com) for more of Mary’s articles, resources on homeschool, ideas, and curriculum information.



The Hidden Blessing of Homeschooling



Like most homeschooling parents, when I started homeschooling, back in 1998, I thought the greatest benefit of homeschooling would be that I would be able to give my children a superior academic education than they would be able receive in a school institution.

I knew that homeschooling would enable me to use what I believe to be superior educational materials, which embodied sound Christian values, rather than secular humanism, evolution, hedonism and other philosophies of the world that have infiltrated the text books used in state schools.

I was also happy to know that one-to-one tuition that homeschooling allows would ensure that none of my children would ‘fall through the cracks’ if they had any special learning needs. They would be able to progress at their own pace and move ahead only after they had mastered whatever new concept they were learning.

I was glad to know that as we progressed in the years to come, that I would discover my children’s passions and I would be able to tailor-make their education to facilitate their interests and career directions, making learning a fulfilling and purposeful experience for each one. This would be true ‘outcomes based education’ with our own Godly outcomes as the goal, instead of the state’s outcomes!

I soon discovered that I would need to train my children to be helpers in the home, capable of completing chores that would contribute to the smooth-running of our home. I was glad that we could encourage a good work ethic in this way and raise capable, hard-working individuals.

I, too, would learn to become better organized in my home and I found that each year, as I matured in our homeschooling adventure, gained experience and confidence, that I got more and more organized and enjoyed the journey more and more.

So, with all these benefits, I had the mental picture of us becoming the ideal ‘happy homeschooling family’.

..and then REALITY HIT!

It was a struggle to keep my home as immaculately clean as my husband would like, when I was busy with a school-going child, toddlers at my feet all day and pregnant most of the time too! My friends thought I was a bit odd, to stay home, occupied with my children all day instead of putting them in preschool like they did. I could never go anywhere without having a group of small children in tow – so any outings or errands became a major event, to get everyone organized, bags packed, juice cups filled, safety-belts all buckled up etc. etc. I could no longer go to gym, craft mornings, Bible studies or other adult activities that would stimulate me unless it was a ‘child-friendly’ group. We had to survive on one income, which meant that for many years, until I started a home business, money was very tight and was often an ‘issue’. There were relationship clashes between me and my step-daughter, which affected the atmosphere in our home and made it hard on everyone in the family. I regularly wondered if we were doing enough compared to what school-children were doing, as our days seemed to be filled with interruptions. I wondered if I was using the best curriculum or if we should have used some better program. I wondered if my children would one day be glad that they were homeschooled, or if they would feel that we had deprived them of a school career. At times, some of my children had very few friends their own age or own gender and I wondered if they felt deprived of friends. On days when I lost my cool with my kids, I felt I was a terrible teacher and parent. I often compared myself to other homeschoolers, either in real life, or on the Net, and felt that I was not offering my kids as rich an education with as many opportunities as they were giving theirs. I read about many different styles and philosophies about homeschooling and often felt that there might be something lacking in the way we do school.

As the years rolled on, I found answers to some of these dilemmas. I became more confident and settled in our way of homeschooling. I found better curricula materials that suited our needs more comfortably and in time I realized that the sacrifices that I had made for homeschooling our family were paying off.

My children, although far from perfect, were learning to do their chores.
They were becoming self-motivated learners, able to get out their books and start without me at times.

I succeeded in teaching them to read well and they fell in love with books, becoming bookworms that devour any literature they can find in the house that they haven’t already read. (I now have to pack away in boxes any literature that I want to read aloud with them!)

They are well-socialised and polite, able to converse with both adults and two-year-olds alike! They make friends easily and participate in both individual and team sports.

They say that they are happy to be homeschooled and view one another as each others’ best companions. They value their relationships with their siblings.
Our house is reasonably neat, but never going to feature in any interior decorating magazine!

I have found ways to pursue hobbies, a home business and interests of my own in the evenings that leave me fulfilled. BUT, in spite of all these wonderful successes, I have discovered a far more valuable and hidden blessing in our homeschool life:

Firstly, let me state that the success of a homeschool does not lie in any curriculum!

God is using homeschooling to constantly shape and mould all our characters.
The constant rubbing up caused by our different personalities enables us to sharpen one another like iron sharpens iron.

As homeschooling parents, we have the opportunity to constantly disciple and train our children’s characters. Whenever vices such as laziness, selfishness, dishonesty, lack of respect or any such trait raises its ugly head, we have to deal with it head on!

We have the opportunity to build strong relationships with our children, to win their hearts, so that they will learn to honour and obey both their parents and God and become adults of integrity! What good is it if they are well-educated academically, but not honest, reliable, diligent and God-fearing men and women of integrity! Knowing how to deal with these heart issues that we face in our homeschool is not always easy…and learning to govern one’s own emotions is also a challenge.

As a parent, I have had to develop traits that would hardly be needed if my children were in school for hours and hours each day.

People often say to me, “You must have such patience!” If I have patience, it is because I have developed it to meet a need. Nobody has patience if they don’t need it!

Patience, perseverance, self-sacrifice and humility in the face of one’s own weaknesses are just a few of the traits that are constantly developed in the homeschool situation. I think every homeschool parent has, at one time or another, had the awful realization of the bad fruit in their own lives being reflected back to them through their children’s behaviour – be it attitudes, actions or even just intonation! It’s enough to make any parent run to the foot of the Cross and cry for mercy and help!

A few years ago, I found a quote that says in a nutshell what I have discovered:

“…God’s initial goal for Christian homeschooling families is not the raising of godly children. Instead, God’s wonderful, but subtly hidden agenda is that the homeschooling experience be so challenging for the parents that they feel the need and hunger for a closer walk with their heavenly Father.” (Kyle Miller)

It has taken me years to fully comprehend that homeschooling is not just about academics, rather, the hidden blessing of homeschooling is the opportunity that it affords us to allow God to develop His character in us and in our children by drawing near to Him in our need!

By: Shirley Erwee

About the Author:
Submitted by Shirley Erwee of http://www.shirleys-preschool-activities.com/

Shirley is a mother of five and has been homeschooling her children for ten years. She is the author of various homeschooling curricula, from preschool to high school. Her websites offer encouragement to other homeschooling parents. To find out more go to http://www.south-african-homeschool-curriculum.com



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